It is said that America has a rape culture. To some degree I agree but in large part I must dissent.
Certainly compared to some nations our rate of sexual assault is quite high, compared to others we are rather low. So why is this?
Certainly America was built on a bedrock of misery and pain.
African slaves were bought and sold in horrific conditions and suffered abuses that make the most perverted BDSM practitioners cringe.
The idea that blacks had it easy during slavery, a revisionist delusion that makes the rounds every now and then is simply insane and ignores all known fact and history.
Still, black slaves may have in some says had it ways compared to Americas native population. There was after all value in a slave, they were not cheap, and so keeping them moderately healthy and providing some comforts was in the interests of slave owners. The genocide and abuse of Native Americans however showed little restraint. but is America unique in this? hardly.
From Aztec to Roman culture, Egyptian and Greek, African to Asian all of humanities cultures with few exceptions have been steeped in slavery, cruelty and bloodshed to those around them.
it is a human condition.
So how do we fight it?
Here I talk about sexual and gender violence, exploitation and cruelty.
Women are by far the most victimized segment of the worlds population. Why?
Some argue that women are weaker and therefore easy prey, but to me this seems a simple and in the end false rational.
I argue instead that male sexuality is at its core violent. Certainly not for all men, but for enough of a percentage that it matters. Whats more, in groups that sexual violence tends to feed itself. We read of girls gang raped at parties or dowm rooms by groups of men who otherwise knew each other only slightly or not at all. How is this possible unless men by nature have an inborn sexual predator?
So what can we do about this if indeed it is the case.
One can well argue that we must fight sexually violent imagery, Television, pornography and video games, that we must supress and eliminate the violent male sex drive. The problem of course is that many of the cultures that do exactly that, Islamic, Chinese, Religious Conservative and social conservatism have much higher rates or abuse, rape and cruelty then cultures where sexuality and even violent sexuality are accepted and normalized between consenting adults.
No valid study linking media to rape has ever to my knowledge been produced and it is little surprise
After all, the most violent and exploitative periods in our history happened well before the internet and cable TV. The high points preceded violent video games and rape porn by quite a bit.
I would argue that embracing violence as a part of ones sexuality, doing so openly, consensually and with those who seek to be victimized is the same approach.
Now, you may scoff, who would want to be victimized you may ask, it seems an insane notion, one used as a justification of excuse.
The problem is, many women, intelligent, healthy, sexually liberated, spiritually aware women, do, and I mean many.
It is a part of female sexuality, this dynamic, this drive. I have simply known far too many women who express this to believe otherwise.
The ones who do not embrace it, who do not understand and make peace with it become the abuse victims, the battered wives and dead girlfriends of monsters.
The ones who do, who do not fight the darkness but make peace, who accept it as a part of themselves they can explore safely. those are whole.
Sometimes I look at all we do and I think, this is so damn weird.But it is for better or worse who and what I am. When I was younger I wished I was vanilla, it seemed so much simpler because in truth vanilla people are indeed simple people with tiny brains who are really rather dull and flavorless and who should be locked in cams and torture especially the ones with big tits, somehow I am digressing I think.
Anyway, I craved being what you would call normal, perhaps have a girlfriend with long dark hair, big soft breasts designer blue jeans encasing a great ass that naturally should be paddled while those cornflower eyes brimmed with tears and her fat nipples were crushed in my fingers, again, I digress.
ut I really craved that life, I did. I still do, just with the torture part intact.
All three of these girls look sweet and innocent at first but be fooled. Each one of them has an inner slut just begging to be fucked. Remy fancies herself a princess. Annie showed up in a cute little dress and tried to play innocent. And I\’m still not sure how someone named Felony thought we would buy her act. They are all too ready to be sexually destroyed to worry about maintaining that.
Casandra Nix and Beretta James are back for more and this week they are joined by a first timer, the sexy and flexible gymnast, Lea Lexis. You can expect to see her again soon, too, if how much she enjoyed being Sexually Broken is any indication. All three of these beautiful women share an intense need for rough bondage and rougher sex. This is the only place in the world to satisfy both so well.
Combine one deep throat, a sexy, flexible body and a desire to please and you have the make-up of our perfect bondage model, Chanel Preston. For someone this good we take our time getting to know her first. We wouldn’t want to break our toy by moving too fast. And easing her into it has its benefits. Once she is warmed up it is even easier to take the action from just rough to downright brutal.
This week features three of our hottest fucks coming back for another round of brutal poundings. Remy, Ash and Penny are looking for more. They want more cock. They want more bondage. They want more brutal and humiliating domination. If it takes action this intense for them to get off I don\\\’t know how they every cum without us. Their desires run deep and dark, but we satisfy them all.
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In this Madmen clip which has been criticized by various pundits we hear a bedroom conversation Betty instigates regarding the rape of her daughters teen age friend. While her husband does seem a little shocked I think we can tell, if any such thing is possible in a fictional setting that he is not too horribly upset or turned off by this kind of talk. Betty’s quirky smile and sparkling eyes indicate she herself is enjoying making him squirm a bit.
To me, the phrase she used, “You wanted to spice things up” indicates that rape fantasy or BDSM style play had perhaps been a topic of conversation. Whats shocking on a broad based appeals show like Mad Men is in fact not a strange conversation to couples who enjoy rape fantasy. The things spoken about in our bedrooms or play spaces that would offend and terrify vanilla folk who overheard them make this bit by Betty tame in compare.
I think most people would be surprised to know just hoe common and mainstream these fantasies are. Though with the rise of popularity of works like 50 shades of grey and the film the secretary it may be less of a shock then it would have been in Betty’s generation.
People who are aware of and in control and consciousness of their rape fantasies are no more likely to go out and commit a crime then your average horror movie fan is likely to go on a killing spree, In my view acceptance, understanding and ownership of ones kinks and fantasies actually makes for a far more healthy, balanced, safe sane and consentual sexual being who is able to explore and nurture their sexuality, what are your thought Oh gentle readers?
Penny Pax may struggle at first, but it is just because in her fantasies she always needs to be overpowered. Every part of her wants this. It is what she has always wanted. To be shoved into her own apartment. To feel the rough hands of strangers exploring her body. To scream at the top of her lungs and know that no one else is coming. She fights, but only because she wants so badly to lose.